So, I know a lot of people post about this on here. Thanks for hearing me out.
My wife and I got married young, we have been married 12 years now and I am 34. Anyways, she knows about it and long ago once let me try it. It didnt go all that well and that was a long time ago. I think she would be okay with it more now but it is really hard to talk about. This is the only thing we do not share. She is a great wife but I really want to be able to wear. I do not need her to participate, just allow me to wear and accept me as I am.
I know I just need to have a deep talk with her. She seemed less okay with the baby side of things, so I am going to keep it light and just say I want to wear as they are a comfort thing. Any ideas on the best way to go about this? I know you would need to know her and me and all the ins and outs but any suggestions would be great. I have been showering her with love just because and tomorrow is fathers day. Thinking about dropping the bomb then.
VERY nervous but will update. I have kids and that makes things dicier. One is still in diapers but almost out.