So anyway, here's the deal. My Mom and Dad are in town for a week, and Mom always helps out around the house when she's here. My wife did some laundry, including some cloth wipes my wife sewed for me while folding our clothes. She asked what they were, and my wife said, "they're butt wipes. Xtrabulk likes to be clean down there (this is what she said...she and Mom have a strange relationship, and she was teasing Mom)." So anyway, the wife takes all the laundry I've been not folding downstairs. I had been stacking it up in our room (we're not like that, but due to some medical issues wife was out of town, and new job and kids and and and she had come back and was helpig with the backlog). I thought I had closeted all the diaper stuff, but I guess I forgot a onsie. So, I was walking downstairs, and saw Mom folding. Then she grabbed the onsie. She held it up, raised a brow, and said, "whose is THIS?" I nearly panicked, but realized I was 40 and she was in my house, and said, "It's mine. It's fun!" Wife was mortified. But, Mom just said, "Well, I guess that's why you need the butt wipes." Then she started laughing. Of note- I belive she has known about my proclivities since I was 24ish. And, the laughter wasn't degrading or humilitati at all. It was a strange, "I get it and am in on the joke and I love you and you must feel weird and I've known about your diapers forever and I'm glad you found a wife" laugh. It was comforting, and after a talk...and a million smokes...my wife convinced me to share. Anyway, I think im closer to my mom than I've been in a while. Thanks for listening!