I'm just staring out in my love for diapers. Last time I wore diapers I wasn't using adult diapers. So my partner was loving and caring to order me some tena diapers. Thing is I don't know if I got the right size. See I'm not the smallest guy like I was back in my teenage years. I was reading what tena said on their website for mediums the would fit a waist/hip 34-47. I wear size 42 pants without any issues at all. Yet these diapers don't seem to fit right. In the crotch area they seem to tight and its seems like I don't get the diaper on just properly and seem to take a few adjustments to get them right and by that time the velcro has worn out so much that they pop off. The picture showing how they go on shows the velcro straps going in the front with the bottom facing up and top facing down. With me the velcro straps are located on my thighs. I got a feeling i got the wrong size. However they seem big on my partner so I'm hoping the smalls fit him well.
So any idea what I did wrong. Should've I gone with the large. Does like your regular underwear size technically mean what your diaper size should be. I wear large underwear. Partner wears small to medium under.