So yeah their another ABDL in my city, and we chatted on online/Instagram/Kik for an hour, about our interests, and baby stuff, then we discovered we live in the same city together it was quite shocking, she seems real sweet and all.. and we're the same age (18). So should I go meet her in person? Because I heard of some ABDL had terrible experiences meeting someone online who have the same interests and such... I'm nervous meeting her for our first playdate next week. So what should I do?