So I hear from many people that they have life partners whom they love but don't indulge them in ABDL. It is not my attempt to denigrate something I do not understand. Rather it is my attempt to try to understand.
When I look at my life, and I am single, I know that I want to meet an intelligent, attractive woman who gets my quirky sense of humor, would rather hear the Dead Kennedys than Eminem any day, who likes experimental cooking, dogs, and science fiction. Add to that, it's important to me that my hypothetical lover, whether she be ABDL or not, Kinky or not, find a way to also show love for the 4 year old little boy inside me. Being as I have stated in other threads and not to belabor the point, I'm not able to have sex normally. I literally cannot even get the least bit aroused unless I'm exposed to ABDL stimuli like a brief roleplaying session. Yes, I wear diapers too, but that has nothing or should have nothing to do with sex.
My question is, is this too much to ask for? I've heard competing answers before and I want to be clear that I would not be fulfilled in a relationship with someone who can't learn to tolerate or even love my little boy side. Is that selfish? And am I setting myself up for failure? I really hope not but, life is lonely and it's only getting lonelier.