Every time I try to make a personal ad, these jerks come along and antagonize me until I look like the asshole, then insult my intelligence, my integrity, my sanity, everything! I just want to make a good impression on a woman who's not repulsed by ABDL but these people are ruining it for me and the caretaker mods don't consider it harassment at all, sons of bitches. I want to meet a girl and fetlife is my only chance to find a girl who's ABDL-tolerant. But I barely get along with anyone there and I feel like a total alien in that crowd. People say I ostracize myself but I don't understand how. I'm just LONELY and want to know that I can still have a family one day and a healthy romantic and sexual relationship despite being ABDL.