So recently I've been becoming more confident about talking to girls (read the old thread "guys: making the dirt move) and so today I walked by some of the tables near the Art building, and there was a girl there sitting by herself. She was wearing this bright pink princess-patterned dress and white tights and pink Mary Janes and a big pink bow.
Naturally I was curious so I went over and introduce myself and she invited me to sit down and we talked for like an hour and she was into kawaii and anime and beig super girly and i sort of alluded to also wanting to dress and consolation kawaii style and she started talking more about where to buy the dresses and outfits and places where people meet and be super girly and stuff.
The whole while, I keep thinking that she's an abdl, she certainly seemed like one. How does one go about deducing that correctly without being too forward? How does one tell if someone is?
Did I have my first real world encounter with another abdl?