I thought this was interesting since after 6 years of marriage and being depressed off and on my wife has finally come around to being my mommy.
The journey has been a long and interesting one and I am starting to write a book about it to help others deal with how hard it can be.
We decided to agree upon some guidelines and these will vary for different people but we found it helpful to get out there what is desired.
If at any time either one of us is uncomfortable and unable to do/deal with something we can stop immediately.
I am a 4 year old child.
You are my mommy.
I have really bad pee pee accidents and need to wear diapers. If for some reason I am little without a diaper on I might have an accident. It's mommies discretion whether or not I should be punished if that should happen.
I will have a general idea that I've wet myself. I need mommy to check to see if I need a diaper change or not. If I do I am able to help mommy by lifting myself upwards so the diaper can be slid underneath.
I can't be trusted without holding your hands outside, except for short periods.
I can't be trusted with sharp objects.
I can't be trusted with a normal cup.
If I do anything bad I should be punished. Whether it be a time out or a spanking in extreme cases.
You are my mommy and I need you to take care of me. I need cuddles and hugs and tenderness. In return I will try to be a good little boy and love you with all of my heart.
I will admit something else... I like you being my mommy... a lot. I like being put into diapers... forced into them....
I like you being in control.
I am giving you the ability to threaten with me being put back into diapers.
If I am doing something you don't like, even if it's something like just getting too involved with something so I am not spending enough time with you....you can force me to become a little kid.
Obviously this is still a mutual thing, but under most circumstances when I am told I am going back in diapers because of being bad I will become a little right away.
Needless to say I am far happier than I have ever been.