this is more for those here who are married and whatnot
there's this place i go to every other saturday or so and its like a church-sponsored dance/ball thing. there's about a 50/50 mix of high schoolers and collegiate attendees, and its a fun cool safe way to meet people and relax. however, i've been running into roadblocks there. i'll meet a girl, and she'll be awesome and think i'm awesome, only to find out theyre still a senior or a junior in high school.
i just turned 19 a few days ago, and traditionally my limit has been no more than two years younger, and i dont care at all if older. for those of you with relationship experience, how many years apart is right?
obviously i dont ask this question because i am attempting courtship with ill selfish intentions (nothing illegal), its not even in my mind. i just was wondering for how many years apart should the (hypothetical) girl be from me?
idk if it makes a difference but a lot of the time i look younger than they do, they mistake me for 16 a lot.