After posting on another thread I had this question pop up in my mind:
If your partner asked you to put aside your ABDL tendencies could you? Could the practice be quelled despite the desire?
The question came to mind regarding what our priorities are. What the limits are. Do these tendencies define our ultimate happiness? Can the simple balance between kink/desire be trumped by seeking other stabilities in a relationship?
This question is left open to anyone whether in a relationship, marriage, or not involved with anyone currently.