I figure it's time to tackle one of the biggest issues out there:
Having a desire / need to not only wear diapers... but be treated little. But it's more than just pretending really. It's being treated little yes... but also... understood to a degree and accepted as little. It's so much to ask of someone. So how do you meet that need? How do you find someone to do that for you?
It's sooo hard.
Little's, AB's... we are the minority. Caregivers... these are hard to find. Often you see little's taking on both roles, switching back and forth. Which is not necessarily a bad thing because obviously a little know's and understands which is so very important to me.
The short answer is obviously to put yourself out there and keep looking.
I really wanted this post to be about me and my situation so let me get into that...
I've never been treated little.
It's easy inside my head or by myself. But slowly, very slowly my wife has started to come around and talk about treating me little. In a very touching moment we hugged and kissed and she said she would change my diaper. Of course, I don't want and would never force my desires on someone. It wouldn't be good to me in that type of scenario anyway. So it's taken about 2 years to even get to this point.
Over time... yes, time, my wife has come to see the need. And she say's she is my wife and wants to make sure her husband get's what he needs.
Of course, I am still afraid.
...I've never been treated little.