I have been dating this woman for a while and last month we decided she would come and live with me. I had never mentioned my ic issues with her. I managed to keep it as hidden well because I am a 3rd shift worker and I sleep during the day when she is at her job. Whenever I could sense we were getting going to be intimate I would always hurry off to the bathroom and clean up and change into underwear. The other night we were both off work and she wanted to cuddle I didn't change. She was rubbing my back and I could feel her touch the top of my diaper sticking out of my pj's. I thought to myself this is she is going to freak out.. but she never said anything and didn't stop either. Later that night I explained to her about my ic issues and why I hadn't told her before. She was so understanding it was amazing... it was so not a big deal to her like I had painted it out in my head that it would be. She is bi-polar and I am very supportive for her and she wants to be the same support for me. So I was wondering for the other ic people that are dating or entering a relationship, when and how did you tell your significant other about your IC issues? Were they supportive or not?