Last weekend I got to fulfill a fantasy I have had for years, having my wife try wearing a diaper. For the past few years, she has fully supported me having this fetish, but it is not her thing. In the past we have discussed our fantasies, but she was not ready to try wearing a diaper. I never pushed the idea on her, but last week she told me she is ready to try one on and fulfill my fantasy.
She told me this a day or two in advance, so I was really looking forward to it. When the time came, I was pretty excited as we walked upstairs to our room. As I put the Tena Slip Maxi on her, she said how she doesn't like the plastic feel and how wide the padding is between her legs. Putting the diaper on her was also weird since I'm used to just diapering myself. She put some lounge pants on and we went downstairs to watch some TV for a bit.
Knowing that she does not get enjoyment out of it, I noticed it took my enjoyment out of the fantasy as well. I usually think seeing an attractive woman in a diaper is sexy and was looking forward to seeing my wife in one. Surprisingly, I actually did not find the diaper on her that attractive. I was surprised that my fantasy was better off just in my head and that in real life, I was a bit disappointed. It may be that since this activity has been such a personal thing for me, never shared with anyone before, I just am not totally comfortable. I also think I would have enjoyed it if my wife got enjoyment out of it.
In conclusion, she wore it for about an hour watching TV on the couch, but then it was time for some adult fun, so off it came. She is open to trying it again, but I'm in no rush. My thought is for her to try one of my Abena Abriflex smalls next time. It will be a better fit and she might prefer the cloth backed.
I'm sure many have had similar fantasies. I've read how some people here have had their partners get involved and I always fantasized having that as well. Are there others her that have had a similar experience, finding that the fantasy wasn't all that great in reality?