Hello Adisc. I know I'm not as active as I used to be, but I still lurk about our dear site. However I need to poke my head out of the shadows, and ask for advice.
A little over a month ago I had two online friends come out, and admit things to me. They told me they were gay (Which I already knew because of a bad secret keeper), and that they were furries. This part was a bit surprising but interesting to know considering I am one as well. Then my world changed when they said they both think I am cute.
Now I've never even dated before. I drifted though high school like a shadow to avoid prying eyes. However now I have two friends flirting with me though Skype every day...and I'm enjoying it. For a while I was really out of sorts with my emotions but I've finally realized how I feel. I love them both dearly. Now I will point out I have a boy friend, and I've told him about this pair. He's quite ok with them as long as I still love him too.
What I need advice on is I've been invited to come up to their town for a week to visit, game, and have fun. Before anyone says anything I'm fairly certain they have no ill intentions for me. I've met them both IRL at several gaming conventions before they told me the truth. I fully intend to go see them, but I'm not sure what to do once I'm there.
Both have said they will respect my boundaries of what I do and don't want to do. At the same time one has said he'd do anything with me including sex. The other isn't exactly sure about having sex but he said he's not opposed to the idea either. This is where my problem comes in.
I've never dated before. My BF is from a long distance relationship. I would like ideas and suggestions as to what to do once I get there. Just no ABDL suggestions. They know about my fetishes and accept them but it's just not there thing other than caretaker cuddling.
I'm curious to see the responses I'll get to this, and if anyone has any questions feel free to ask, and I'll answer as best I can. Also if this is inappropriate I apologize in advance to the admins. I just don't have anyone else to really ask about this kind of topic.
Thank you for your time.