I have been wearing pin on or snap , cloth diapers , with a thick soaker pad in it for a while now , and plastic pants over them , just make sure , your whole diaper in covered , nothing however small sticking out , or you will leak ! And I wear them out in public , under my baggy , jeans , shorts , what ever ! And a very loose baggy shirt ,that covers your bottom , put lots of powder on before you get diapered . I have never been outed , or looked at funny , and I also wear diaper suspenders, they keep them ,snug on yer butt ! I don’t get too close to people , especially , if you’ve made a mess , or it’s really wet , as that may start to smell after a while , and keep moving , or ride one of those store carts , I’m disabled , and walking can be a pain , but cloth doesn’t make any noise either ! And in the colder days I have a nice longer baggy coat , over the whole thing , and having a huge load in your diaper , feels great , and the smell stays pretty well hidden , as does the bulge . But if you can smell it , then it’s time , to end the trip , and head for the exit ! But I have also said , just move around like , you own , the joint , look confident, and nobody will even give you a second glance , even if there could be an odor !