I have always taped my diaper from the bottom up. I read that top down is the proper way. I have tried it and still can't get the proper fit. I wear 3 tab Depends because they are easy to get. When I tape one bottom side the other side doesn't cover my butt the same as the other. Should I try a new diaper? It seems like this should be pretty simple. I am afraid to order anything because I don't want to get it wrong. My first were industrial grade 3 tape and then Attends and then Depends. If you respond, then thank you in advance. I have just come back after many months and would like to be a part of the community. Like most I am alone with this.