Ok i've had a streched colon for as long as i can remember. it was never properly treated due to my step mom's inpaitence when it came to cleaning me up when a "cleanout" occurred....the laxatives were so effective, she thought i was just making it up. she stopped the treatment.
now ever since then, my colon has been stretched out to a point to where it presses up on my bladder whenever im due for a BM...so if makes any sense, i poop if my bladder releases, and i end up wet if i start to push out a BM. My disability grants me now power over this, if i cramp up, my whole body clenches until i go...
my aunt doesn't seem to get this, thinks im just being lazy and ruining furniture on purpose, i even pulled medical records and she still wont accept my issue.