I have been reluctant to admit I enjoy wearing diapers. I live in the U.S. and just recently, a few months ago, bought my first pack of goodnites. After joining this site and reading the reviews I went out and purchased underjams. I am a far bigger fan of underjams. I am a male, 6'2" and roughly 205, and underjams fit. They are far more absorbent and don't leak nearly as bad as the goodnites did. I just want someone to talk to ... I don't have anyone who would understand how I feel.