This weekend I have had the most fabulous time of my life and I want to share my experience as a sign of hope for those of us searching for another person to share their life with.
I want to give a little background that will put some of this passage into perspective. I broke my leg at the start of December and it has been a terrible time for me. The break was severe and I have had to have several operations and have been off work since it happened. As I had nothing to fill my time as I was stuck in the house I decided to use the internet to try and find comfort and friendship. I have been in nappies for most of my life and found this site and have been active since I became a member after the leg break.
I have made many friends here and found out some things about myself that I had not really thought of before. I have also helped a few others with their own problems and hope to continue to do this in the future. I have found a place to express myself and have also found myself engaged in some very interesting and varied discussions. I not only joined this site, but have logged onto another site that allows you to seek romantic encounters with others into your same fetishes and kinks. I never thought for one moment that anything would come of this but three weeks ago I messaged a lady on the site that was the same age as me and appeared, from her profile at least, to share common interests. We had a lot in common, not just sexual preferences, but we share a love of coffee and animals, and enjoy proper films (not the usual Hollywood action fest).
I was surprised to receive a message back a day or so later and this started a steady stream of conversation. We had hardly touched any topics about sex it was all about our lives and what we did with our spare time, what our cats names are and nicknames we had. I was enjoying these discussions and was taken by surprise again when the young lady asked to swap phone numbers. We began to chat on the phone, sometimes for a couple of hours at a time. We discussed politics and how much technology has moved on and other topical events. We eventually built up the courage to start telling each other our deepest fantasies and it became apparent very quickly that we fit each others preferences very well.
After a couple of days of talking and sending text messages we both agreed that we should meet up as soon as possible. It was easier for me to travel as I am not currently working and do not have to arrange anything. I bought a coach ticket and set on my journey last Friday. I was so nervous all the way but kept myself calm until I arrived.
I was so relieved that the girl was waiting for me at the coach station and that she looked like her pictures (very pretty of course!). We clicked almost instantly and after having a quick coffee we went back to her house. We talked for ages and we were like peas in a pod right from the off. It was like a dream, a fantasy I had always wanted to realise but it was finally real and happening. I will spare everyone the details but for once in my life I was able to be myself completely and could express myself without fear of rejection. I have had chances in the past to use nappies in sex but this was so much better then anything I have ever been able to do. I am so happy at this moment and cannot wait to go back to visit this wonderful girl again. She told me she was also the happiest she had been in ages and wanted to make a go of it with me.
I have a chance of real happiness, something I could not see a few months ago. It appears that breaking my leg could be the best thing that ever happened to me and I know that I would never had looked at any of these sites under normal circumstances. I wanted to share this to help others who feel lonely because of their fetishes and cannot see a light at the end of the tunnel. Hang on in there, be yourself, put the effort in to find that special person and be honest from the start.
I know many people here struggle to come to terms with their lack of a partner, it can be daunting to visit all the different sites or go to munches and events. But it does work, and my example is testament to this. I think the first thing I realised is to relax, it is to easy to jump in and start telling everyone about what you want to do with nappies or being a baby etc. but this puts people off. You cannot have a relationship that is based on sex and you have to start by being yourself and talking about what makes you tick, what your favourite colour is, what you like to cook or what books you like to read. This is what I did and it worked, believe in yourself and do not let the fetish be the only thing people see. I learned this early on visiting these sites, people like people not a horny fantasy.
I hope this thread gives the hope it is meant to and that my experience can give strength to others searching for someone.