It can be easy, when one is isolated and lonely, to make angry posts about not understanding you, being frustrated by you, etc. I have been guilty of that in the past and I am hoping I can control myself in the future.
What do women want? We try to be fun to be around. We try to be funny. We're smart. We're attractive. And yet, other guys always seem to get picked over us. This is why some of us have so little self esteem, We can't figure out how to do what those guys are doing, or even what that is. And I for one, personally, don't understand despite many people trying to explain it to me, how to deal with rejection without taking it personally. And every one acts like rejection's no big deal when I talk to people about it... but it's a big deal t o me and as far as I can tell it's like I have a mental deformity that makes me see it that way and everyone doesn't understand how I feel.
Personally, it confounds and depresses me.
So that I can overcome my difficulties, please help me understand what you want? Because every time I think I know what that is, I'm brutally reminded that I have no damn clue. What makes you want to date a guy besides intelligence, attractiveness, etc? Why do guys like me never get picked?
Someone who's honestly trying and getting very frustrated