The wife and I where discussing children and I expressed my biggest fear. Raising a kid while being a abdl, I didn't want to expose my child to it. So I was hesitant to lose my current privileges. Being in just a shirt and diaper and enjoying the freedom in the house to do so or being diapered the whole weekend.
Well she told me they will find out eventually and it'll be much more difficult to mitigate it and explain it. So instead of hiding it just keep it private. Just wear stuff over then and expose them normally. Tell them that daddy needs them. Which isn't a lie since I do need them for emotional reasons and just wear pants and if they see just let them see. Don't hide it raise them with it as normal. I figured this was the best way. Just keep the AB stuff behind close doors. That's something that isn't appropriate to share.
I liked this idea of doing it but sometimes ideas are better then in practice. So anyone have any words of wisdom for this?