Be honest: being a straight ABDL Guy sucks. You're constantly assaulted with statistics about how rare caregivers are for male ABDLs. Women are a whole other insecurity. Except for the personal pleasure it's given me, being ABDL makes me very pessimistic about my chances for living a happy life with an understanding woman.
This thread is for men to discuss mens' issues as they pertain to ABDL. Women and non-hetero guys may post here but please do not contest the validity of our feelings, even if you disagree with our opinions. An opinion maybe wrong but the feelings it engenders are very real.
I hope this thread generates some productive discussion so that we may improve our lot in life.
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Here's a mature topic I'd like to discuss: I can't get aroused without some ABDL stimulation. Can't perform at all. I've tried different techniques of conditioning myself to get aroused to breasts and normal stuff like that but it just won't work, which leaves me in the awkward position of having to explain to women (hypothetical women, of course, I haven't dated in a long time) that I have a need to satisfy. The last time I tried to talk about this on a forum a woman on that forum got very offended at my use of the word "need" and implied that I was being presumptuous and said I was talking like I was entitled. But I know there are other guys out there who understand what I mean.