This REALLY BUGS ME. I, as a guy whole loves being diapered, just want to find a sensitive and understanding girlfriend, not a "Mommy." I do not think that is an unrealistic expectation. But everywhere I go in the ABDL community I'm constantly reminded by others that I'll never "find a mommy" because of the lousy statistics. I'm not some internet-drone. Why do people assume ABDL guys will settle for nothing less than a full time mommy? I have an adult life to live. Being ABDL doesn't change that.