**This is intended to discuss more the aspects of living in a dense, fairly public/urban housing situation and being a DL than it is about telling an SO, there's tons of those threads.**
I'm about to move in to an apartment for the first time in a long time. I lived in my own house that I owned throughout college but now off in the working world I need a place and I'm not ready to buy again yet. So, my girlfriend (of 2 years) and I are getting an apartment together. She does not know about my DL'ism.... yet. We lived together in my house in college, but it was a whole house, lots of privacy and space (for hiding things). I could have large packages delivered, no problem, I parked my car in the garage and carried diapers right in, no problem. An apartment though, parking out in the open, possibly trekking 200 yards across open parking lot, receiving packages at the property management office, carrying trash to community receptacles? This all adds up to not a lot of privacy (from neighbors) and the chance for awkward discovery by my girlfriend. Does anyone have advice, or situations/scenarios to share about DL life in close quarters?