Okay so there is the usual tell your boss answer. I am afraid that may not be enough. There apparently is a string of insults being thrown at my direction behind my back. It has been going on for quite an extensive time, and the only reason I know this is because someone clued me on it. This person will not tell me who they are in fear that I would retaliate, and/or be hurt further by it. I am going through a transition, and right now I am emotionally vulnerable. I do not know how to get Jake to fess up on the context of the insults, and who did it.
I am sure he did not do this, and is just trying to make me aware. What bothers me is I do not understand why people would do this. If I could at least talk with them, and understand why. Then I would be able to help the situation because I would know what is going on rather than be ignorant. No one really insults me in front of me. This is happening when I am not around, and it spreads. I want to bring the matter to Human Resources because they got the ability to handle such delicate issues. Though I also do not want to put off Jake by bringing him into it. Though if I don't then they will not have the insight they need. Please I need advice.