I'm hoping I can get some advice to help me better understand the abdl community and fetishes etc. I am currently seeing someone who is a abdl and he enjoys both babyboy/mommy roleplay and daddy/babygirl roleplay. I still have a lot to learn and it can get a bit overwhelming getting a grip of everything abdl. I should mention that I did not have any interest or much knowledge about abdl before we met. Anyway getting to the point. My question is what counts as cheating in an abdl relationship? In a "vanilla"/ "normal" relationship, kissing, sexual intercourse and so fourth tend to apply. But in an abdl context the lines are getting a little blurred for me. Should I be upset with my baby boy if he wants to colour and draw pictures with another girl when we are in a monogamous relationship? Because for him colouring/ drawing can be done in a sexual roleplay with me.... I'm a bit confused. Any advice, thoughts would be appreaciated!!!