In just over a month, my best friend / significant other will be here on vacation, and we want to role play with each other. My role play involves being punished with diapers. Initially, as the bratty little brother, I'm gonna disobey and sneak off to the bathroom.
Long story short, my misbehavior is going to get me spanked, and I'd like for it to be to tears.
Ideally, he'd spank me until I'm crying, pause, and then tell me to count the last 10.
My question is, is this safe? Newbie guides I've searched for say to start slow, with 20 or less hits. I'm not 100 percent sure of my pain threshold is, but I think I'd be crying before or as its reached.