I am in need of help to figure out where to go with my relationship, seeing as it is now falling apart.
Let me start with the beginning of my relationship because it all ties in. about 3 months into the relationship I told my GF that I was ABDL and to my surprise she said she wanted to try diapers and she did and she told me she liked them. She even got some on her own and has used them and so on, well 5 months later out of nowhere she tells me that she hates diapers and hates that I wear them and that she does not want to do it or any part of it and this is long after we gotten into the role of daddy daughter play when we were together.
Here is where all the problems started. Well she was leading me on by pretending to like diapers “so I would like her more” we were happy and not even a single argument to speak of but as soon as she told me the truth it was then like 5 months of our relationship was built on a lie. Since then we have gotten into many arguments and she has even tried to break up with me a few times quite simple because I have said no to something’s such as not taking her out to eat because I was doing homework. And I did not let her break up over a silly decision because I believed there was something that could be worked out.
Well now that it is 2 more months later now present she is telling me something such as “I love you, you are perfect, now change”. In other words she is telling me not to change but at the same time telling me to change, she wants me to be me but she wants me to be what she wants a guy to be. The trouble is in this relationship I am the girl and she is the guy. She is the one demanding sex and mirage and I just do not want that yet because I am still in collage.
On top of all that, over the course of 10 months I have spent $3000 because she does not help in any way money wise and I littlery have $39 to my name now. And at an average spending of $75 a week on her or $300 a month I just do not have the money to support the relationship she wants. And right now as it is, she does not care that I am broke she has demanded me to spend more money on her, not kidding she does not care if I go into debt she wants me to spend more money on her right here right now.
Now pleases don’t tell me, that I am the guy and I just need to act like one and just go off and marry her and have sex because that is what guys do. The thing is I may be a guy but really I am the girl. I am writing this here for advice because this is an open community and I need advice from people that understand a similar situation. So pleases tell me what should I do. Should I try to keep the relationship going or just break up with her as is?, because right now as is I have pretty much given up. so please help, i would like to make the dicisoin to stay or go on new years, for my resolution.