Um. I'm not sure what youre asking for advice with!
...maybe you wet yourself in the middle of the night? Twice so far in a month, when I've gone to bed wet I've woken up with my t-shirt, pillow and plushie soaked. I think having the sensation of moisture "down there" makes a bed-wetter out of the most continent of us. Is that what you wanted to know?
I think he is asking, at least partially, if other people like wetting themselves, then sleeping in it all night. In short laying down in bed, wetting while awake, then sleeping. BUt at the same time he asks advice which confuses me. Rephrase the question maybe?
(Living with family, this could be very awkward...not sure on the rash potential.)
I live with my family and I can easily get away with wetting my goodnites any time I want, some of the time of which is before I go to bed. then twice in the morning I decided my goodnite could take a little more only for the fluid to not end, I leaked a little both times since there wasn't any capacity left. Wont do it again. First time I got my plushies tail wet and had to spend an hour getting the urine out of it.
I *can* say with 100% certainty that even with no powder or vaseline, sleeping wet does not give me a diaper rash.
Sometimes I wet right after I get changed for bed before I even get in bed. Sometimes it happens shortly afterwards and the 2 to 3 more times before I get up in the morning.
Feels great!!! But being able to wet in the middle of the night and go back to sleep also feels great.