So, here is the deal:
You know those things that happen that ruin your day, and no matter what you do you can't get it out of your head?
I am talking, it has affected you so much that you cannot stop having insane one sided conversations and even admitting that dwelling on the issue is pointless doesn't stop it.
...you can't stop. It bothers you. The situation doesn't make sense and is unresolved, is not okay.
So let's explain the situation:
"I say, hey, don't mess anything up!" (jokingly)
Other person, stops, gives stare of death. "excuse me???"
I instantly realize the person cannot take a joke so I apologize profusely.
In response just outright attacks:
"This place is a @#$%hole. I come in here and fix etc."
I continue to apologize profusely explaining it was a joke and say I will help them out in any way possible.
"Oh, don't worry, I won't ask you for anything."
So here I am. Apparently the bad guy, although I feel like I am under direct attack from an enemy nation.
And my day is ruined. I can't even fall asleep. I am really not that sensitive, but the vibe from this person was so violent and wrong. I just don't understand how a person can react in such a way, when the other person is using calm polite reason and is completely, utterly, apologetic.
I am in a shambles.
....I just want to tell that person, thanks. But you know? They obviously don't care.... at all.
Sure, I don't know what is going on in that persons life. Perhaps something awful might have happened.
But you know what I think?
I think I just met a horrible person that has no soul.