I have been wearing diapers 24/7 for over 20 years and am also married. My wife accepts my diapers and also is involved in my interest also. Over the years my wife has tried everything on me such as pads, panties, rumba panties etc. When out in public and at family functions she always was worried about someone noticing the diaper bulkiness or hearing the crinkle of the diaper etc. She said this would be very embarrassing to her even though I would probably enjoy some of it as she knows that I enjoy the humiliation of wearing diapers. So she came up with a solution that works very well. When out in public she makes me wear a panty girdle over my diaper. This manages to slim down the bulkiness of the diaper, lessens the sound of the crinkling and also tightens the diaper against the skin at the edges and seems to help prevent leakage accidents. The worse thing about it is usually in the summer as they are something that causes some discomfort on hot days. Sometimes when she is displeased with me she has also had me wear full length body girdles which start above the knees and cover my entire torso. These are very hot in the summer and cause a me a lot of discomfort. Does anyone else use foundation wear with their diapers?