I'm sure a saw a thread on this a year ago, but I just can't find it.
Basically I've not been able to indulge in my little side for over year now, previously I have used Underjams, Drynites (Goodnites) and Tena & Depends 'pull up' type things. Now it's time for me to get some real diapers, but there is just SO much choice, I don't know where to start.
Like how absorbent should I buy? Should I get the most absorbent or get one in the middle - really I want to know can I wear it, give it a bit of a wetting and not be waddling about or have a massive bulge. Then what brand, I'm down to Tena Slip, Abena M-series and Molicare - I know Tena you get more in the bag, but how much space does that take up as it has to fit in my rucksack in my under-bed storage.
Also is plastic backed really that much better? ultimately I am going for the stealthiest option, but stealth isn't much use if it's going to leak - that said I don't keep diapers on for long once I've used them as I'm too scared about potential stale urine smell.
So, what is a good starting point?