Well, I have been married for over ten years now. Sex has never been great between us - it was a bit better when we first got married but certainly wasn't great. We do have three kids so it's not like it's not happening but I don't think I really satisfy my wife. I have never been able to have great sex although I only had a couple of partners before marriage. Involving diapers helps quite a bit but my wife is pretty against this; she will do it occasionally but wants us to be able to have sex like a normal couple and frankly I don't blame her. I have used some meds in the past and they help a bit but our current insurance means I would pay $30 a pop. We have been seeing a psychologist for years for this and other issues but now I am wondering if I should see a psychiatrist to figure out the sex without diapers thing. Anybody got any experience with this or have the same problem?