So i have an AB friend who has been married now for a little while, and I keep on asking if he has told his wife yet, or suggesting ideas on how to approach it. Even had an idea of me making a wrong number text to her and admitting to my imaginary girl friend that i was AB, so my friend could get an idea of how his wife would react to the idea of AB's.
Main point is, regardless of my ideas, and encouragements, he just doesn't want to do it. Should i just stop? I know it isn't any of my business on how he keeps up his life, but I was trying to encourage him to tell her before they got married, so then she wouldn't feel like she married somebody she didn't really know if she finds out during their marriage. Now it is past that point, and i'm hoping he doesn't wait for 10 or more years to say anything and by then she is making assumptions about his mysterious behaviors.
Another part of the reason is because he wants to make a 5 hour trip down here sometime so we can have a play date night, and i can't help but feel like i'm encouraging his lie. Its like i'm helping him cheat on her, even though there isn't anything sexual going on.