I have not seen a review for this pull up and so I thought I ought to give it a plug. When I first started on pull ups I used the Tena unisex (cant remember the name but it was very frilly). These are much more butch with vertical stripes and can masquerade as an underpant which my wife finds more comforting. They are good for those days when it is not appropriate to diaper up - e.g visits to the doctor/consultant and they can hold three of my puny floodings.
Available from Boots in the UK.