My name is Tom and I am very new to all this. My girlfriend told me this was something she really wanted so right now, I am trying to be her daddy. I know it is not as good for her if she has to tell me how to do everything so I am trying to learn from others. I've learned that baby boys and baby girls appreciate different things... Any advice out there? I'd really like to hear from anyone with experience- Daddies, mommies, baby girls?