A little curious about how others may have approached this situation :-).
My GF and I have been dating for about 2 years, and we are discussing moving in with eachother. I have only accepted my DL side myself in the last few months, but I know I should at least tell her about my diapers before we move in! She is pretty inexperienced (really only been with me) and a little conservative herself. She is aware that I am a bit of a perv ;-) and that I have experimented quite a bit and is fine with my past.
We have a very loving relationship, and I have a strong feeling she would still accept me, but I would like to share my DL side with her without overwhelming her.
Would love to hear from anyone else who has been I'm that situation :-)