So me and my gf have been together for a year in a half. 6 months into the relationship she was looking up porn websites on my computer and saw diaper stuff but just asked what's this? And I played it off. then around 10 months she found a pic of girl in a diaper tied down on my computer and I played it off as extreme bondage. Her exact words were "really? A diaper? Why a diaper?" So I figured she was weirded out and I'd never tell.
Well a couple months ago I told a girl who I went to college with that I am friends with about ABDL and gave her my FetLife account thru Facebook. Well GF saw the messages and looked it up and flipped out. It was either explain everything about my fetish or she was done.
So I explained I liked diapers and only wearing a little but love when girls wear them. She was very curious and accepting though to my surprise. Me being 22 and her being 24. Thought she would think different. I told her about my stash of diapers hidden in my garage then moved them into my closet. In the process of moving thought id just put a Bellissimo on before coming in and she heard and came out to watch. I'd tried to hide it and she said dont, so I walked around in just the diaper and tshirt for an hour before she had class. Cuddled in bed but she didnt touch the diaper and even kissing. I even wet infront of her and she noticed right away.
We talked that night and she said she would have no problem trying and is going to try. Just needs to ease into. I've been so eager since its only been a few days and pushed a little to much the past few nights and she said to let her just want to do it, reassuring she will try soon. Doubt she will like it but she has been reading on it and will try it for me atleast. I've been wanting to wear nonstop since, its all I can think about right now! It's so surreal and truly a dream come true as I've wore since I was 8-9 for fun!
As a 100% submissive.. Is there a chance she will like them? How often will she really wear or feel comfortable letting me wear? Anyone with a non abdl spouse who participates for you with any insight? I don't wear all the time, just a day maybe 2 a week..