Has anyone's significant others removed attachment items from you such as your pacifier?
Im asking because my wife took offense to my bink, primarily because we d)o breastfeed and she has stated that it takes away from her. This has been hard for me to deal with considering my bink, nuk 5 traditional white, is one of my main items as well as diapers and my onesies. My bink disappeared compleatly, once it vanished for awhile and I found it hidden in her nightstand - I cant find it this time and she states she hasnt seen it and that i may have gotten rid of it during one of my purge cycles (not so true that is the one thing i never purged from my stuff and i hesitate to by a new one due to how negative her reactions to it are.
Any thoughts how i should go about this? I tried rationally bringing it up and even put binks in my watch list on ebay, but the reaction is the same from her.
I apologize if i come across negatively myself, im just frustrated, confused and my inner self may be even in tantrum mode