I just want to say thank you. Reading some posts all of you have made, have helped me to realize stuff about me that i didnt connect. Such as how i still feel ashamed to a degree about my "little" self and how i need to work on that if i am to communicate what i need to my wife. Im still in the process of weeding through posts to better understand me as well. This site is so full of helpful not harmful information.
I introduced my wife to it so she can do some reading, maybe ask a few questions and use this site as a positive resource.
A great big thank you goes out to all who post here.