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    Question Used against you?

    Has anyone ever had a friend who has used you being a ab/dl against you in a argument?

    Like they will say your not thinking straight because of such and such, and then say they can prove it by this.


    Have you had a friend who bashes you about it for no reason when they where col when they first found out?

    Have you had a friend who was trying to cure you from it?


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    I am sorry for so many question I am just really curious right now.

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    CrinklySiren

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    I've had friends try to say that its a phase and temporary and that im just immature. I've had friends question my reasoning because of it (despite me being SO much more ahead in life than they) and I've never had anyone use it against me as blackmail but I have had slip-ups where I was playing a drinking game and a category part came up on my turn and someone said "oh i was expecting you to choose diaper brands as the category" instead of the brand i had chosen, forgetting that someone in the group was not "in the loop". Luckily we were all drunk by then so no one noticed the comment.

    One of my best friends was cool with it at first and then before a trip to washington he flipped out and started acting weird about it and then didnt want me sleeping in the same bed as him >_> he made it seem like I was going to rape him or something despite us having slept in the same bed before AND while i was diapered and in my pjs...

    People are just difficult sometimes lol

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    No and no... Haven't told anyone, but if you're talking about blackmail don't hang with the friends in question... Just sayin...

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    acorn

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    It would appear that your friend needs to feel you are psychologically dependent upon him. Be aware, he can escalate this new found issue to a public platform, if he finds he is not getting all his way. My advice would be to engage with him in private with a view to shutting him down.



    Quote Originally Posted by kratox View Post
    Has anyone ever had a friend who has used you being a ab/dl against you in a argument?
    Would you stand up? (Be Honest)

    One very serious question; the two threads you've started, this and one linked above - are they related?
    Last edited by acorn; 01-Nov-2013 at 20:56.

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    Quote Originally Posted by acorn View Post
    It would appear that your friend needs to feel you are psychologically dependent upon him. Be aware, he can escalate this new found issue to a public platform, if he finds he is not getting all his way. My advice would be to engage with him in private with a view to shutting him down.

    Would you stand up? (Be Honest)

    One very serious question; the two threads you've started, this and one linked above - are they related?


    It is just some thoughts I have been thinking about. In a sense I could say they are.

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    Last edited by kratox; 02-Nov-2013 at 17:05.

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    Astra

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    None of my friends knows I'm ABDL, so no, no one has used it against me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kratox View Post
    Has anyone ever had a friend who has used you being a ab/dl against you in a argument?

    Like they will say your not thinking straight because of such and such, and then say they can prove it by this.


    Have you had a friend who bashes you about it for no reason when they where col when they first found out?

    Have you had a friend who was trying to cure you from it?


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    I am sorry for so many question I am just really curious right now.

    I've only ever told one friend and (a) it's never been used against me and (b) I don't expect or imagine it would ever happen.

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    The only one who dealt with it with me was my psychiatrist from when I was in college. When my mom found my stash and gay porn, I had to see a shrink at this big residential mental facility. He thought I'd outgrow it, and it wasn't the primary issue I was there. Homosexuality was illegal in the late '60s and could land you in a mental facility, or jail, if you were caught with another male or same sex partner. I was also having a psychotic break, so the diapers were back burnered.

    My best friend from college knows and he's accepting. It never comes us in our e-mail conversations, as we discuss more lofty things. The problem with telling others is that it can come up. But I think your friend is weird for bringing it up and making an issue of it.

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    No, I have pretty much kept my ab dl life a secret from my friends.

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