I thought I would share my current night time diaper "recipe" and would like to hear what works for everyone else.
So for a couple weeks now, I've been doing something new at night. I take an Abena L4 plastic backed and line it with a 2XL booster from Northshorecare. Then at the top front and going into each wing, I attach a large booster pad. That's one on the left and one on the right and they overlap a bit in the front center. Over that I put one of the Gary Wear Active Brief PUL pants in case of leaks. Then just to keep everything snug and for an added layer of protection, I wear Under Armor size xl boxer briefs. The good thing about the Under Armor is that if I do manage to leak through all of the above, it really disperses and wicks the wetness away and makes it difficult to transfer to my fleece footed pjs. I usually don't even find moisture in the pants, but have leaked through the whole assembly once. I do drink a lot of water before bed otherwise I tend to feel really bad in the morning. I don't want to get up 4 times in the night though!
It seems like a lot, but it works. If someone would just make an insanely thick disposable with fluff all the way to the edges then I could avoid all this booster stuff.