I'm really hoping I'll get a lot of input on these topics and may end up bumping this thread if need be....
Basically, I know I enjoy regressing, I know much of what I like about it and about being a "Little" or AB, however I've been for the most part unable to sink into this form of regression as much and/or easily as I do my other form of regression (pet play)....
now some of this is definitely tied up with my dislike of my body in general (large amounts of body dysphoria being stuck in a male body vs the female one I'm aiming to achieve in the next few years)
Things such as body/facial hair (I trim things down when I can but it's incredibly tedious and more stressful to obsess about it than constantly deal with it), obviously male features (including that *thing* down there) and just the knowing I'm not comfortable in this body all throw me through a mental loop when it comes to trying to fall into little mode.
Alongside body dysphoria, I've often had a hard time taking my mind off life in general (especially when alone) as my brain never stops ticking on the never-ending perils of my everyday - I know that being able to relax would aid me in my plight but most things I've tried in the past has failed (ie meditation, yoga, breathing exercises) or are things that require me to be an adult to do (ie the computer relaxes me for the most part but I don't see my little being old enough to know how to use such things)
TL;DR version: Anyways, the summary of this thread is that I'd like advice on how to 'ignore' any body quarrels both gender-related and general physical ones (ie overweight, disliked body parts) I have or get past them as well as how to let myself slip into a kind of blank state of mind and connect with my inner "little" more easier, especially when I have no one to help me do so/any of this.
there are probably a few parts of this I skipped but I'm guessing the jist is detailed enough.
hoping some wise souls will read this and give their take, as always any input or advice is appreciated and thanks in advance :3