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How does one explain ABDL to non-ABDLs?
Have you ever had to do so voluntarily or after getting caught, and if so, what happened?
What might you say, how might you say it, and what resources, online or offline, would you point that person to?
How does your explanation change if you are explaining it to significant other vs. a family member vs. a friend?