straight up you would have no desire to wear diapers be a baby etc. you would be completely vanilla. I know it's kind of a serious loaded question but I think it's one that needs to be asked. Personally I'm split down the middle and it depends on the kind of day I'm having. on one hand I don't have to deal with the stress of ppl finding out and I would probably be more open to relationships. On the other being ab/dl has always been a part of mt life and has shaped my character in a lot of positive ways (being more accepting, appreciate ppl for who they are not what you want them to be, better understanding of the gay bi community etc.) I'm interested to see the responses to this.