I hate threads like this but I want to know what you guys think. By the way I wasn't really sure what forum to post this in, so I went for this one..
Okay sooo... I've been hanging out with this guy Steve. He's not really my boyfriend but ya know, we joke around a lot and hang out, well, almost every night. In the past six days, he has made EIGHT references to diapers in some way or another.
this is the BIG one that made me actually go WTF.
We were sitting on his bed, and I was talking about my ex who has a sock fetish. Somehow he brought up furries (something he totally did NOT get the concept of, haha. He thought furries were people in Halloween costumes having sex) and then while we were talking about that, he somehow managed to slip something in about diaper lovers. Of course the whole time, he has the typical "eww it's so gross" attitude but it's kind of different... like I could tell he was watching my reaction. The topic kind of switched a little bit and he brought it back to diapers by asking me what I thought of the "diaper thing". I was just like "whatever, do you want me to put you in a diaper, baby?!!" (just jokingly). and he just leaned back and kind of groaned in a joking "Yess, please! for the love of god." Then he accused me of trying to convert people to diaper fetishes by forcing guys to wear them with a cult (he came up with the acronym ACDC - Annie's Crazy Diaper Cult), and told me that if I made him wear a diaper for my cult, he'd use it and make me change it. Later that night he was bitching about something so I joked "Hey do you need a pacifier with that diaper too?" and he GIGGLED and started to pretend he was sucking on a pacifier (num num num, etc). Now, it's been a couple days since we had this whole conversation and he brings up the ACDC thing in almost EVERY conversation. Or he'll just randomly text me and be like "So when can I join your cult? any day now?!!" (ive gotten like 2 or 3 texts similar to that).
Other comments he made before that night were like, once he said I would look cute in Huggies. Another night we were joking about me being an old lady and wearing depends, and he said that @ least if I was wearing one, I'd still be cute. Also once, we were in Walgreens and he went to the diaper aisle and was like "Hey Annie! Gotta get the essentials, I know how you rely on these!". I think he was just trying to embarrass me there though, because there were a lot of people on the aisle. Still, did he have to pick diapers to joke about? It just seems like a lot of joking about the same topic... that's not even to mention all the little comments he throws in all the time about needing diapers for various reasons, commenting when diaper ads are on etc.
Because I know him well, I also know there is no chance that he knows I'm a DL and is just trying to test me. If he knew I was one, he'd ask about it, because that is the way he is, really obnoxious and open about $hit. I think if he IS a DL, he might be a total n00b about it..
But still... I want your guys opinions of it and if I should do anything. I can give more examples of comments he has made, if you want.