I am sure -like a lot of people on our forum here- that we have taken a long long way to discover and accept ourselves. For me especially as a DL. One of the early leads for me was the website from 'The Den of Bittergrey', a real help to clear things out. (see Understanding Infantilism )
So, now I red some article about defining a main difference between DL's and AB's, about the fact that DL's often use their diapers to fulfill their sexual needs. Al sorts of 'tools' are allowed, from extremely wet thick diapers, or thin diapers, plastic pants, bedwetting with diapers, accidents with diapers, going out diapered, you name it. The result always, in the end, to fulfill your sexual needs and then that's about it.
Well, this little polarized view may sound rude, but let us suggest this is only about me. I really really do not intend to insult someone, It is not written to get the facts 100% covered, but more as an example, as a global image of a DL, thus, first think it is me, then, think further
Then, let me assume the following is true:
AB's are more into role play things. They want and they create a certain environment. Diapers are just a little part of that environment. They want paci's, a box, playing things, onesie's, you name it. There are even people that build furniture 'adult size', wonderful! It may be (but I only assume it for the picture here) that AB's often don't at all use their diapers to get their sexual fulfillment.
Question 1 to you: Do you agree with my thoughts?
Question 2 to you: Is it then possible to be a DL and an AB at the same time?
I would like some depth here in our forum, so I invite you to respond
(Note: My native speech is not English, so please excuse me if there are typo's or you detect 'cocktail party English' )