I'm a 31 year old DL who has been married just under a year now. My wife knew diapers were my turn-on a year before we married, and initially it fit in the relationship somehow.
However, things have slowly progressed away from diapers working in our relationship, and our marriage is rocky right now. My wife actually suggested I look into the forum on ADISC because it has been a source of real distress to me to feel alone and misunderstood. So I have mixed feelings about getting into the conversation, since I imagine she urged me to because she really doesn't think its ok deep down (despite saying time and again that she's cool with my diapering) and I'm hesitant to seek therapy of sorts through my participation; on the other hand, being included in a community of people who potentially understand my struggle is very appealing.
I know my wife loves me, and also wants more out of our marriage than I have provided lately. Feeling stuck in an intimacy stalemate.
I welcome feedback.