So, after a search I didn't find much to address this... Saturday, the 21, I will be going to my first littles munch. This will be new for me, as I have only been in the company of one other AB before. Now I'm looking at possibly six. And, because I didn't want him to feel left out, I invited my husband to come with me.
My husband is a non-traditional DL, by that I mean he rarely uses disposable or cloth diapers, he prefers to make his own out of nylon or silky-smooth fabric. He really does embrace my little side, and does indulge me now and then, but age play isn't really our domain. Our commonality in the DL is based on the sexual side, and age play to him is very new and something he is getting used to.
It is important to me that I share this side with him. He already knows that a munch isn't a fetish party or a sexual event. What he is most concerned about is being in a public environment with that many AB/DL/littles and feeling like the eyes of the world are upon him. I've reassured him that we won't be dressing in fetish gear and that it will be plain-clothes, no exposed diapers or anything. He still seems edgy but now I think it's more of his usual social anxiety about meeting people.
I'm worried that he won't have a good time, but if he does, at least he won't feel bad or envious if I go on my own to the next one. I'm proud of his honesty and open-mindedness, but then again, I don't quite know what to expect either. HAs anyone else brought their S.O. to a munch?