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    I am quite new to being an DL ( a little AB because I want to use a pacifier aswell ) but the thing is.... when I am horny I LOVE IT! but when I finally come out of it I actually start to have second thoughts...... maybe I haven't really gotten into the role yet but it feels really weird between the ''boosts''

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    Well, if it's sexual for you then this will probably continue to happen. It may evolve into something beyond sexual, but otherwise you are all but guaranteed to have to deal with those conflicting feelings. Sorry I couldn't be much more help

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    Completely normal. I actually started a thread on this not to long ago. I cant find the thread right now but I experience the exact same thing. My "Love" for it disappears faster then I can get my hand off my mister once the curtain comes down so to speak lol. Its sucks because its a catch 22...the diaper fits better when hes (ahem...) smaller...but the desire to wear goes with it... lol

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    Try not to worry too much about your situation, I'm sure many a person here has been through the same thing when they first started out. Just remember that it's not hurting anybody and it's a part of who you are. It's only really weird if you let it be.

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    I think that's the way most sexual things work. At the very least, that's the way kinky fetishes work. I saw, once, someone defined porn as (paraphrasing) "something that you have zero interest in the second you're no longer horny." I think that's the way most sexual things work, so that's normal. If diapers/pacifier are the things that excite you when you're being sexual, you may have no interest after you're done.

    It's especially normal if you have a sense of weirdness or shame and wish you didn't like diapers - then that would explain the reason why you said 'second thoughts.' Unfortunately, I've personally never seen anyone just stop their fetishes completely, as they are pretty ingrained in people. So just have fun when you want fun, and don't sweat it when you're not interested afterwards. That's part of the process.

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    Not really adding to what everyone else has said, but the people that I've spoken to that find diaper to be a sexual thing, have all said that as soon as they reach orgasm... Diapers dont interest them so much, but when they feel horny, they cant tape up fast enough!! Its nothing to be worried about.

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    Very true, I used to experience the same thing. So, I have been experimenting lately with this by rubbing out a quick one and then putting a diaper on straight after and I no longer have a lack of interest in wearing nor do I get really excited before hand when I do wear.

    The longer you wear, the more it becomes the norm. And then you start experiencing the AB side a little more.

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    That's how fetishes work for a lot of people. Outside of when you're aroused, you often don't like it as much if at all.

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    yup same here mostly. i will enjoy wearing my diaper and wetting it and whatnot, usually ill refrain from pleasuring myself until the diaper is about full but not always. it almost never fails though even if im not wearing and just thinking about wearing has me aroused, once i get off its almost instantaneous that my desire is gone, alot of times though i will just tape it back up and keep going. it doesnt completely ruin wearing a diaper for me, but like i will be motivated to do something like wear to bed or to work, and then once i get off all the motivation is gone. If i keep wearing it though it doesnt take very long before my desire returns, i could really keep the same diaper on all day and get off many times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tnecniw View Post
    I am quite new to being an DL ( a little AB because I want to use a pacifier aswell ) but the thing is.... when I am horny I LOVE IT! but when I finally come out of it I actually start to have second thoughts...... maybe I haven't really gotten into the role yet but it feels really weird between the ''boosts''
    Completely normal. I've been interested in diapers most of my life. Been a DL since I hit puberty. You'll get horny and absolutely love it. Then after, you'll have thoughts about how odd it is. But it's a sexual kink for some. There are other kinks that I can't wrap my head around. So it's all good. Don't worry about it. When you can start to accept yourself, the second thoughts will pass.

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